a week in minnesota.

The weekend before Easter the kids and I ventured off to my home state of Minnesota.  

Hubby usually joins me for at least part of my regular trips back home to the tiny city of Red Wing, but this time I did the 12 hour drive solo, both ways.  I am pretty proud of how smoothly it went.  There was some screaming, some crying, some vomiting both in the car and on the side of the road, and a lot of asking "Are we there yet?! How many more minutes?"

But to me, despite all of that, totally worth it.

Anyway, I hadn't been with my family at Easter for years, so it was really nice.  I got to see my dear sister Heidi for a few of the days, who had rode the train in from Montana with with her oldest daughter, my niece Bel.

To that point, I am so blessed to have family that makes an effort to travel and spend quality time together, even though we live so far apart.  It is a big reason I felt comfortable moving far away -- I knew I would still see them as much as we all could, and we make the most of our time together.

This trip was no exception.

Cormac is old enough to remember "Gramma and Grampa on the farm" and got very excited for this visit!  He could hardly sleep the night before we left.  

I am grateful to have siblings that are such amazing aunts and uncles.  They are very warm with them, giving them lots of hugs and letting themselves get dragged around by tiny hands.  

Oh, and the cousins! Ethan and Ella and Bel were so sweet and loved on Cormac and Nola sooooo much.  Despite the distance these kids seem to bond immediately.  I know that is because my older brother and sister make sure to talk to their kids about their cousins, show photos and make sure they don't forget they have family in Kentucky!  

Grandma and Grandpa help out with that, too, I am sure!

I mention all this because it is sometimes hard for me to live far away from my family.  I know if I had pressed Hubby to get a job in Minnesota he would have, and I would get to see my family a million times more than I do.  

But I also know we, as a family, make the best of it.  I know I am closer to my family living farther away than some people are to family that lives in their same state. I know I am blessed to have that bond.  That my kids, despite never getting to see their cousins, still have the most amazing time with them when we do.  

Finola loved being outside in the farm fresh air, just like her brother always has.  She was particularly enthralled with all the animals at my older brother's farm -- she fed cats, chased chickens and gazed at cows.  Cormac even got to feed a cow, which he did with his typical seriousness.  He was more interested in the "excavator" toy perched atop a giant pile of sand.  It was a dream come true for him.

We went to church a few times together, ventured up to 'the Cities' to visit my Gram Margaret and Auntie Paulette, hung out at my brother Josh's and SIL Jen's farm one evening, I had a coffee date with Jen, and my mom, brother and I even got a morning of shopping in town.  So nice!

But mostly just hung out at 'the farm.'  The kids played endlessly - favorite activities being:  taking walks in the woods with Grampa, the playhouse, the grainery, the lean-to, swinging on the tire swing, and hanging out in the basement.  I never realized what a patient man my dad is until observing him with my kids.  He took them every day, without fail,  for hours to give me a break.  They didn't do anything fancy, just hung out outside, doing basically the same things every day.  Was he bored?  It never seemed like it.  Was he annoyed by Cormac's non-stop chatter?  I couldn't tell.  Did he grow weary wiping Finola's constantly runny nose?  I don't believe he did.  My dad has never been a complainer, and he is exceedingly patient with children.  I love that about him.

And my Mom.  Well, my Mom prepared us meal after meal after delicious meal.  She made sure we were comfortable, always.  She gave the kids a lot of "donies" (donuts.)  I am pretty sure they had more sugar on the farm in a week than they'd had in the last year.

But that is okay on vacation.

Thank you, Mom and Dad, for letting us stay for a week and for loving my kids so much! 

Here are a ton of photos from my phone, completely out-of-order.  (Honestly, if I try to organize them I might never post this.  There are so many.)

walking on the trail with grampa

yummy apps on easter

I love my gram.  One of the strongest women I've ever known.

I ran my 20 miler, 10 of which were a gradual uphill grade.  Best run of my entire training.

our final day there was easter sunday -- both kids were pretty worn out, clearly.

superman swinging

my sister and mama - they look a lot alike!

on the drive there we always eat a big mcd's breakfast near chicago

trying on grampa's classes

on josh and jen's farm

playing with the excavator

cormac was not in the best mood on easter morning - and finola wasn't feeling great.  clearly.

they loved the swings down by the old oak tree

this photo makes me giggle - basically our family easter pics were a bust.

at a rest area on our way there - no playground but found a giant leaf pile!!!!

I adore finola's love for nature - she could have spent all day outside...and she pretty much did.

me and my two beautiful sisters.

sibling pic!

it was a really windy day, but at least there was warm sunshine!

finola and ella 

cormac kept trying in vain to scale the side of this tree.

mama and daughters.

on the trail, heading to the woods.  this is the same trail I would walk for hours every day when I was young.

Finola ADORED her "Unk Spence"

Bel tolerated my kids' constant hugging quite well.

in the loft in the playhouse my dad built for the grandkids

dilapidated tree house from my youth - no, my kids were not allowed up there

Ethan had no problems with hugs - he is so sweet!

another of fin and spence - love that look

Cormac in the leaves!

one of the pregnant cows at my brother's farm

the best I could get on Easter of me and my sweet, spirited son.

cormac feeding the cows.

fin and my brother spencer on easter

serving up some "hot coffee" in the playhouse

finola did pretty well climbing the ladder to the loft, with help from grampa

cousin pic on easter.  finola = what happens when naps are skipped. 

as soon as grampa got up cormac wanted to play with him.

a toast, perhaps

finola chasing chickens

a page from a book I found in the playhouse that made me giggle.

resting on gramp's shoulder

girl in the wind.

"come, now!" is one of finola's most used commands recently.

posing by some of the stacked barn wood my dad has organized from the barn that blew over in a storm.

on the trip home, sick baby all tuckered out.

Another road trip to my home state in the books!  

Thankful for safe travels + quality family time.

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stitch fix : spring fix! (a near "keep all")

Okay, so I think I found a stylist who "gets" me.

Yes, I have a personal stylist.  No, I'm not fancy - I just love the online styling service Stitch Fix...

and recently received my sixth Fix since last August!  I don't have a huge clothing budget, but what I do have I want to make smart + fun decisions with.  Plus, I'm a busy mama of two little ones and when I get free time I no longer want to spend it scouring the malls looking for the perfect piece for my wardrobe.  So I started using Stitch Fix and haven't looked back.

I usually keep 1-2 items from each fix, and all have become my most favorite items in my wardrobe.  I can personally attest that everything I've kept has been high quality and worth the extra dollars I spent (as opposed to my usual Target, F21 or TJMaxx finds.)  

Here is what I got this time around... 

(and yes, that is my tripod and our dead Christmas tree in the reflection.  Don't judge!)

#1 Robbie Jogger Pant (by Level 99)

ignore my twisty bra strap, please.

I LOOOOOVE these pants. I requested olive green cropped pants, and my stylist picked the perfect pair.  I am not sure why they are called joggers (the draw string?) because I would never run in them, but they are a really comfy linen blend and the perfect length.  I love cropped pants in the summer to show off cute shoes!  Of course I adore the color, being a total olive green fanatic (always have been...so I am glad it is on-trend!) These comfy crops were a KEEP right out of the box!

#2 Novalli Split Back Tank (by RD Style)

This tank is totally me.  Might seem boring to some, but I adore the heather gray of this 'muscle tank', but whats more the back is really fun!  Ignore my 'nape of neck snarls' on the photo and focus on the lovely split-back detail.  I specifically asked to be sent something with an "interesting back" and Hillary nailed it for me.  It is sexy but I can still wear a bra!  Hurrah!  Also I feel like I could dress it up with my pleather pants or these black skinnies, or go casual with distressed denim and some bright, fun shoes.  The beauty of neutral pieces.  Keep!

#3 Troy Drape Vest (by Kut From The Kloth)

I requested an olive military vest, and when I first saw this one out of the box I was skeptical.  I was hoping for more of a "cargo" look, and this linen drapey style was not it.  But then I tried it on with a few different things and loved it.  So make sure you try everything on and try it with different pieces from your wardrobe before rejecting one of your stylist's choices for you!  I have lots of neutral tanks and t-shirts that style well with this - an easy look with jeans.  So - kept it!

#4 Geno Halter Blouse (by Skies are Blue)

I had requested a halter top, and something with bright pink (which has always been one of my favorite hues to wear.) While this is a halter, and it does have a navy/pink pattern...I was hoping for something more pink! Solid pink, perhaps.  I love the style, but just wish the pattern and colors were bolder.  Plus, I look pasty.   Return!

#5 Leda Shift Dress (by Lavender Brown)

This dress was the deciding factor on whether to "keep it all." (You get a 25% off discount if you keep everything in your Fix, so at least one item ends up being free!)  I wanted so much to love it.  If I loved it I would have kept all because I thought the halter tank above was cute enough to keep, despite not being totally taken with it.  I was fascinated by the colors and print of this dress - sort of a funky, watercolor look.  So unique, and the turquoise bits made it particularly appealing.  The back detail was gorgeous, so that swayed me a little towards keeping it.  However, while I had specifically requested this style of dress (a shift), upon trying it on I realized it does not suit my figure at all.   I think this works best on someone very narrow and thin.  My broader shoulders made me look like I have shoulder pads in, and any curves were hidden in the straight cut.  Sent it back!

So, while I didn't keep it all, I kept three items that I know I will wear a lot and fit my personal style.   I feel pretty confident requesting Hillary to style me again!  She responded to my requests really well and clearly was able to figure out my style aptly by checking out my Pinterest fashion board that I link to my Stitch Fix profile.

Wanna give your wardrobe a boost?  Try a new style but don't know what to pick?  Don't have time (or don't want to use your precious free time) to hit the malls?  Seriously - try Stitch Fix.  If nothing else, you will get some "happy mail" and a few days to mull over the five items sent -- then just return what you don't want in your mailbox with the free shipping envelope provided.  The only cost is the $20 styling fee, which gets applied to anything you purchase.

If you decide to try Stitch Fix I would LOVE if you used me as your referral -- just click here on my referral link and set up your account.  I get a $25 credit if you use me as your referral, and you get the same for whoever you refer.  It's kind of awesome.

TIP - Even if you are not a blogger, take photos of yourself in the clothing you are sent - it can really help enlighten you as to whether to keep or send back!

Wishing everyone a beautiful weekend! 
(a bit early - isn't it Friday, yet?!)
I'll be, God-willing, running 22 miles.
And working on finally posting about my recent road trip with kiddos to Minnesota!